Older but wiser .well it started a looong time ago.

Once upon a time there was adam and eve yes you may argue depending on your ilk but please bare with me for now, If you please because its not a religious statement , not yet anyway lol ,where did it all start or whats the earliest forms of BDSM ,well i have been looking found a few tit bits , no pun intended and still researching .
The historical origins of BDSM are obscure. During the ninth century BC, ritual flagellations were performed in Artemis Orthia, one of the most important religious areas of ancient Sparta, where the Cult of Orthia, a preolympic religion, was practiced. Here ritual flagellation called diamastigosis took place on a regular basis. One of the oldest graphical proofs of sadomasochistic activities is found in an Etruscan burial site in Tarquinia. Inside the Tomba della Fustigazione (Tomb of Flogging), in the latter sixth century B.C., two men are portrayed flagellating a woman with a cane and a hand during an erotic situation.^[90] Another reference related to flagellation is to be found in the sixth book of the Satires of the ancient Roman Poet Juvenal (1st–2nd century A.D.),^[91] further reference can be found in Petronius's Satyricon where a delinquent is whipped for sexual arousal.^[92] Anecdotal narratives related to humans who have had themselves voluntary bound, flagellated or whipped as a substitute for sex or as part of foreplay reach back to the third and fourth century.

Theres more to erm be published ,i know didnt say more to come oh dam just did lol .